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Why I Let My Husband Open Doors For Me

Matt Walsh is someone I read somewhat regularly, and he recently posted an entry on chivalry from a dad/husband’s point of view, entitled “Chivalry is Out of Style”.

It’s a great read, especially if you’re raising up young men of your own. And for the record? I consider myself a strong, capable, independent woman, and I have no problem whatsoever letting someone hold a door open for me.

Overheard at the Doctor's Office

We went for flu shots over the Christmas holidays, and the following conversation ensued as the nurse walked us back to the examination room:

Cora: Maddie, you know that in every epic adventure, some unimportant people die by the end, and a man and a woman get together.

Maddie: Not everyone who dies is unimportant: sometimes a somewhat important person dies too, just so the audience feels the cost of victory at the end of the story.

Nurse (staring blankly at them): I guess you guys like, um. . . (trails off)

Maddie (to nurse): We've been talking about story arcs and plot devices. Did you know that the comic relief and sidekick are often the same character?

Nurse (to me): Are these your kids?

Yes. Yes, they are.

Found: A Desk

Cora has an insatiable love for all things artistic and crafty. She’s got a stack of things to do in her room at bedtime, including but not limited to: a rainbow loom set; an actual cross-stich (yes, she can do it all by herself); several beginning sewing kits; several sticker mosaic sets; a stack of notebooks, maze and puzzle books, and coloring books; and a full desk set, including scissors, tape, erasers, crayons, and more.

What she does not have is a desk.

Cora has a plastic lap desk that she uses for crafting in her bed. She’s also got a very nice dressing table with a big mirror, the counter of which will quickly become buried under cut up construction paper and stacks of homemade fans, which then precludes her using the storage of her dressing table.

So I’ve been looking for a desk for Cora for nearly a year now, but I had a few requirements:
1. It has to be used. I’m big on recycling/reusing whenever possible.
2. It has to be real wood, so I can re-finish it to match the rest of her room.
3. It has to fit into a very narrow, small space that’s the only available spot for a desk.
4. It has to be cheap. ‘Cause that’s how I roll.

The Final Verdict On the Sickness Thing

It’s been a wild ride this week: Maddie’s had a severe case of hives come and go – and come again on Wednsday, only to leave again Wednesday night. She’s had horrible stomach cramps all week, throwing up Tuesday night and being hungry and wanting to eat, but feeling the pains intensify every time she put water in her stomach. As a result, she’d eaten nothing since Monday morning and could barely walk.

I’ve spent the week thinking the hives were a side effect of the flu shot, and going back and forth on the stomach thing: was it a virus? Was it part of the flu shot? If this was all a reaction to the flu shot, would next year’s flu shot be high risk? Should I have insisted on getting the exact flu shot I wanted, and not the one they had when they’d run out of the one I wanted?

By Thursday morning I’d worked myself into a fine case of Mommy Worry, with a nice helping of Mommy Guilt on the side. People are dying here in Texas of the flu – relatives of friends of mine – so the flu and the shot are no small topics of conversation around here.

I Wish It Was Just Hives

Maddie stayed home yesterday – but not because of her hives.

No, I treated Maddie with some of my natural remedies Monday night, and Brian and Cora said extra prayers for the girl, and Tuesday morning Maddie was hive-free. After the doctor had told us it’d be two weeks before the hives went away.

Unfortunately, Maddie DID wake up with severe stomach cramps –so strong that she couldn’t stand up.

Maddie had mentioned her stomach cramps to the doc on Monday, who had said they could be part of the flu reaction working its way out of every system. And I clung to that hope all day yesterday –right up to the point that Maddie started throwing up.

Looks like the stomach bug has also hit our house.

Hives

Maddie came into our bedroom late Sunday night complaining of being itchy all over. Myself being sleepy all over, I told her to climb in bed with me and go back to sleep.

Monday morning she woke up looking like she had little bug bites across her trunk. Unsure as to whether or not it was bites or an allergic reaction, but not seeing anything severely wrong, I sent Maddie off to school with crossed fingers.

By the time Maddie came home after school, the poor girl had giant hives – I mean, a single hive four inches across – in her armpits, across her chest and back, down her legs, and starting onto her neck. Pretty certain by this time that it was a reaction of some kind rather than bites, but wanting to be sure, I took Maddie straight to my dermatologist to get an expert’s opinion.

. . . And We're Off And Running

Yes, I took an entire two weeks off of writing, so if you’re still with me you’re a true friend. And honestly, there were several times when I had the urge to sit down at the keyboard and type out a story – some incredibly cute thing my kid had said, or insanely profound thought I’d just had on parenting. And promptly forgot.

But I resisted that urge, partly out of laziness and partly as an intentional stepping away from everything non-essential in my life for a couple weeks. I’ve had an intense two weeks nesting with my family, and have resisted anything resembling closet re-organizing or long-term projects around the house, trading that in for another round of UNO with the girls.