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I'm Calling It

Last night I came in after work to snuggle Cora after she’d already been in bed for a while. I found her propped up on a pillow, studiously studying an open book; she’s been “reading” very simple books for a couple months or so – simple as in, “I sat on the mat. The rat sat on the mat” with lots of accompanying pictures – and she is straining hard to start deciphering more difficult books.

“Mommy,” she said, gesturing me over, “what is this word?”

It Doesn't Have To Be That Way, You Know

The other day Maddie and I were walking to school, Cora scootering on ahead. Maddie was holding my hand, pausing every once and a while to give me a brief, affectionate hug. As we neared the school Maddie grew quiet, clearly thinking about something.

“Hey, kiddo, what’cha thinking about?” I asked lightly.

The Bible Is Good For All Sorts of Things

Every Sunday Maddie brings her personal Bible to church; her second grade class is encouraged to do so, trying to build the kids up to actually use their Bibles and become comfortable with them. Yesterday when Maddie ran to grab hers before getting in the car, Cora said, “Oh! I want to bring mine today, too!” and ran off to pick hers up – her new-for-Christmas, very lovely but perhaps intimidating-to-a-five-year-old grown-up Bible. I wasn’t sure why, but was happy to go along with it.

I dropped Maddie off at her Sunday school room before walking Cora to hers, and when Cora walked through her door she made a beeline for the teacher, clutching her Bible to her chest. Wanting to find out what was up, I did what any respectable parent would do: I eavesdropped.

“Hey, teacher, do you want to know something really interesting?” Cora peered owlishly up at her instructor.

Her teacher, of course, nodded yes.

Three Strikes, January's Out

Is it possible for a person to get the flu, then strep throat, then the flu AGAIN?

In less than a month?

Cora says the answer is "yes".

The Mine Wars: First Blood

Bear with me as I give you the background:

Exhibit A: Tuesday afternoon Cora came home from school with a new library book. When Maddie saw the book she exclaimed, “Oh, I saw that book at the library! I REALLY want to read it! Can I please borrow it?”

Seeing Cora’s mutinous look, I hastily spoke up. “Maddie, this is a book Cora checked out and she will get to read it first. Please do not read the book or try to look at it until Cora’s had a chance to read the whole thing, ok?”

Maddie agreed.

The Mine Wars

We're hitting a particularly ugly stage in our household, where selfishness and jealousy abound.

Maddie won't share her new wings; Cora won't share her favorite Barbie's favorite swimsuit; Maddie illicitly reads Cora's new library book before Cora does, and then admits she did it even though she knew it was wrong; Cora purposefully takes waaaaay longer than her turn on the mini-trampoline.

We're working through this one baby-step at a time. Lots of talking, lots of praying, lots of scripture, lots of Parenting Tools use.

But I'm not so sure we'll all still be standing when this is all over. I just don't see how it's possible.

The Snuggle Sweater

Wednesday, as I’ve mentioned before, is officially Mommy Day: I teach Monday and Tuesdays after school through bedtime, so Wednesday is the first chance the girls get to come home from school and hang with Mommy for the rest of the day. We keep the schedule clear – no play dates, no appointments – so we can really relax and hang out together all afternoon.

A couple weeks ago Cora was having a hard time getting back into the school groove post-Christmas-break, and I knew she was desperately looking forward to Wednesday. How do I know? Because she told me so on Monday morning. While running errands that Monday, I came across a yummy cashmere sweater on clearance at the outlet mall, and bought it using a gift card Cora had given me for Christmas. (This is getting somewhere, I promise).