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Stupid Television Show

Thanks a lot, season premiere of Parentood. As if my day weren't emotional enough yesterday, I am now officially weepy at the thought of Maddie going off to college. Yes, I've added worrying about my second grader's imminent departure from home to go on to college to my list-o-crazies.

Wait - she's just now starting to get real letter grades instead of smiley faces and stickers this year; it's not too late to sabotage her academic career!

History Is Different When It's Yours

Today is 9/11, and I don’t think I’ve made a single post on this day before. Eleven years ago, I was awakened in my New York apartment by the phone ringing off the hook with friends frantic to get hold of me. I turned the television on just in time to see the second plane crash into the building right up the street from my husband’s work.

Good Math

The number of years I've now been married: 17

The number of poolside glasses of champagne I consumed celebrating this fact during an overnight anniversary getaway: 2

The number of panicked calls I received from our first-time babysitter who also happens to be seven months pregnant with her first child during said overnight getaway: 0


You are so ready for this, Nikkie. You're going to rock motherhood.

Out-Of-Town Tryouts

Maddie and I were talking over her day yesterday – what she did, what she studied, and so forth – when she said, “Oh, Mommy, good news! Elise and I have already picked out what we’re going to do for the school talent show this year.”

Which is, I should tell you, in May.

“Oh, that is good news! But why are you working on it so early?” I (reasonably, I thought) asked. 

Fallout

Yesterday, school finally caught up with Cora.

Hard.

We sort of made it through the afternoon and dinner and Cora began to create an elaborate make-believe game – a sure sign in my girls that they’ve got some stuff to process. All was going fairly well until Cora blatantly took a bag of Maddie’s and then refused to even share it with Maddie. When I gently but firmly insisted, that was the. Last. Straw. And Cora fled to her room, sobbing uncontrollably.

On The Other Hand . . .

I do miss my girls terribly while they're at school.

On the other hand, I’ve gotten an awful lot done during the day while the girls are school. Dinners made, laundry done, cabinets organized, household running smoothly . . .

Hmmm.

Labor(less) Day Weekend

We had our first three-day weekend as a school family, and boy did we appreciate it.

Saturday was one of the most glorious Saturdays EVER. Brian got up with the girls and when I stumbled out of my room at nearly 9 a.m., he was lying on Cora’s bed doing the voices while the girls played Dollhouse. “Wah, wah,” my husband would say with his eyes closed, and the girls would rush to pick up the doll babies and take care of them. “How long have you been at this?” I asked. He peeled one eye open. “Hard to say,” he mumbled, and drifted back off.

I sent my man back to bed and found out the girls had been playing happily for over an hour, and had not yet had breakfast. And thus it went for much of our weekend.