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Still Sorry, But For All Different Reasons Now

A few weeks ago, I wrote about Cora’s recent discovery of the game “Sorry”. I won a couple times, she had a hard time dealing with it, and I was worried it was Candyland all over – all smiles and sunshine until Someone Other Than Cora won: then it was on to screams and throwing of pieces and storming off. Would Sorry be simply Candyland 2.0?

I won’t keep you hanging – the answer is no.

Cora is older and wiser, and after one night of tears and a very good sulk, she decided there’s a better way to deal with losing.

Learning how to win.

Back-To-School Shopping Tip: Bring Tequila

Maddie and a friend went back-to-school shopping yesterday for a couple new outfits for school. In general, Maddie’s good about letting me go shopping for her by myself; she trusts my judgment, gives me a few pointers color- and style-wise, and is happy to see me bring home the bags from a consignment store. But for the first day of school, she’s come to enjoy shopping with a friend – getting excited, squealing over colors and fashions, and gearing herself up for the fall. And yes, it might seem a tad early, but we’re going on vacation (in case I haven’t mentioned it yet today) soon and I don’t want this hanging over my head when we get back.

May I just say, I’m glad it’s over.

It's What We Call A Looong Courtship

A few days ago, Maddie said out of the blue, “Mom, could you set up a play date with Jonathon some time soon?”

Jonathon, in case your memory is as bad as mine, was a boy Maddie went to preschool with – and who she hasn’t seen since then. While in preschool the two were great friends, and swore that they would marry when they were grown-ups. He’s a great kid, really sweet, but again, haven’t seen him in two years. Which is, like, a decade to grown-ups.

Are We There Yet?

We’ve got a big family vacation coming up – we head out the end of next week – and I think I may have gotten the girls TOO excited about it.

Maddie’s read the guide book cover to cover, and loves to debate her favorite restaurants based on nearness to our rental house and the ratings in the book. Cora’s pored over pictures from my previous, child-free trips to the place, and will be able to find her way around any beach blindfolded. We bought both of them a snorkel set and have been using them at our neighborhood pool to make sure the girls are comfortable in fins in the ocean. Now we cannot get them to swim without their fins, which can be disconcerting to the six-year-old playing innocently next to them.

Play Date Etiquette: The Drop-Off

A few months ago Maddie had a play date at a friend’s house, someone whose mother I only casually knew from school. When she returned home a few hours later, her eyes were shining with happiness. “I had the best play date EVER!” she cried. “When can I go over again?”

I smiled. “I’ll talk to your friend’s mom and see what we can set up! What was so fun about this play date?”

Maddie sparkled. “We watched television the whole time, and her mom let us eat a LOT of candy!”

Oh.

There Should Be A Law Against It

Poor Cora was sick yesterday, waking up with vomiting and lying listlessly on the couch all morning. She seems to have recovered quite quickly, but it did force us to stay home and do nothing but lie on the pull-out couch and watch television and drink slushies.

Wait, maybe there shouldn't be a law against it.

Redemption

I had a bad day yesterday.

For a variety of reasons, none of which had anything to do with my kids, a really bad day. Let’s just leave it at that.

After dinner, I fled the house to run errands, leaving my husband to put the girls to bed while I got some space to mentally process what was going on. By the time I came home, the girls were in bed, but not asleep. Cora called me upstairs for a cuddle.